Thank You

A few months ago, a patient’s mother sent me a beautiful composition she had written about the time we spent together during her son’s illness. It brought me to tears. It’s not that I said anything profound, but to her, it was meaningful. I am honored and grateful she shared her memories with me.  

The experience reminded me how important it is to express gratitude to others. Truth be told, I don’t even remember saying the things she found so significant; I’ve had similar conversations with more people than I care to count. What’s so momentous is the fact she remembered it years later, and most importantly, shared her gratitude with me. I made a difference and she wanted me to know.

I’m not good at that. I appreciate so many people, yet I rarely tell them so. I’m just not one to tell others their outfit is cute, or their kindness was noticed. I think it…I just don’t say it…and I don’t know why.  What is it about sharing gratitude that feels so awkward and uncomfortable? I envy those who do that naturally. I’m always afraid people may think I’m running for office or selling raffle tickets.

I think it’s fair to say we may never know the difference we’ve made in the lives of others. That said, from this day forward, I pledge to change my ways! The new and improved me will acknowledge those people who make a difference in my life. I will express gratitude to those who say or do things that make my heart smile and I will resist the urge to remain silent – tall task but I’m up for it!